Sunday, 20 July 2014

HOW DO YOU MOVE ON? (Sunday 29th June, 2014 @ 19:17 GMT)

You left in October. We haven’t talked in over ten months. We bumped into each other that Saturday night about 6 weeks ago. We made eye contact. I kept trying to distract myself by ordering drinks from the bar or going to the bathroom. For half a minute we stood next to each other on the dance floor alone and watched each other before I distracted myself again. Every once in a while I like to check in to see how you are. I would ask you but I don’t know how. I check your social media. Whenever I scroll I see some things that make me teary eyed or overemotional. I saw you had posted a quote that read, “If you’re not gonna marry her, take your hands off another man’s future”. I applied it to myself when I read it. If I was not willing to make a move or to talk to you after ten months when I should have, I should not hold on to you as if I am a ghost haunting a loved one. I cannot expect you to love me at all if I cannot even speak words to you that have no meaning. If I cannot even make small talk when we are a foot away from one another; just the two of us, after the laughs and memories I have of you and I, I do not deserve to hold you in my mind. I am letting you go. Not because I do not love you. It is because I neglected to ever show you. And you deserve every inch of a declaration of love because you are so honest and warm-heartedly beautiful that it sends saltwater drops from my eyes to my cheek when I see you post that you wish for someone to hold.” 

This is taken from my writing blog - mondexwriting

(plus this is superrrrrr personal and I feel quite vulnerable actually posting this on here so it may come down from this blog if I don't feel comfortable with it being so public)

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